Dear L.I.F.E. Readers,
How are you going so far? I actually think that you might already had notice that I almost write the same question every time I do a new post.
I know that my life isn’t perfect, nobody is. But, we, as human beings try to find a bit of happiness, our own almost-perfect happiness.
For now I only know that I’m trying to find my own little happiness.
I have my own goals in life, but sometimes, even if you lose something that perhaps wasn’t for you, it hurts. Because you thought that it may have had an impact on your daily routine. Now, you just stop and stare while it walks next to you, you see it, you talk to it, and you share like if nothing really mattered anymore. I guess that there’s this saying that comes in handy: ”Just go with the flow”. In other words ”TO DO WHAT OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOING OR TO AGREE WITH OTHER PEOPLE BECAUSE IT IS THE EASIEST THING TO DO”.
I now know that it will never change, you find something then you lose it. That’s how LIFE is with you. We live, we share, we explore, we learn and we die.
Not too long ago, one of my best teachers just lost his wife due to cancer. My sincere condolences to him and his family. For all I know, they loved each other very much. And tried to make life on earth, a beautiful place. He never went to war without a fight, and that’s what he taught us at school in class. Indeed, I feel very honored to had been one of his students back in high school.
I’ve lost people and found new ones too. We can never replace anyone, true, but we can always remember them with a special place deep in our hearts.
I don’t know if it’s death season, or what, but even if a lot of people die constantly, it’s even harder to accept our love ones to leaves us here on earth to wait our own call.
Meanwhile, I’ve realised something that could do change your life. If you have someone close to yourself, don’t wait to be in the phase of ”Lost and Found” to feel sad, or miss someone.
If you can tell that person that you love them, or that they mean something in your life, just say it. Do it face to face, not on the phone or via e-mail or texting, it has to be face to face.
Don’t wait for the next 2-3 months to come. Because one day you might be sick and the next day just leave. Don’t wait for the Lost and Found phase, just don’t. Even if you know that it won’t go anywhere with you telling the truth to this person, but at least give it a shot. Don’t stay with ”what if?”.
If you think this is crazy, well I feel sorry for you. Because living life itself on this planet, is crazy as it is. And everyday is full of sorrow, laugh, craziness. If you want to stay mentally healthy, you have to have a crazy side and a heart. Or else, your not human at all.
Just think about it, and who knows perhaps you’ll escape yourself from the Lost and Found phase.